Friday, May 3, 2013

How to Pray When Loved Ones Hurt

Quote from the book What Happens When We Pray For Our Families. Evelyn, page 67

WHEN WE DON’T WANT TO PRAY  When a family hurt drags on for weeks, months, and even years, it is hard to keep on praying as instructed in Ephesians 6:18:  With all prayer and petition pray at all times in the Spirit, and with this in view, be on the alert with all perseverance and petition for all the saints.
Dan’s wife, our Nancy, ran out of patience several times.  “Mom, I just prayed, ‘Do something God.’”

When the pressure got too great, Dan even admitted getting angry with God a couple of times, praying much as the psalmist often prayed.  “God, You can do something.  Why don’t YOU?  Why are You so silent—so long?”
I remember one day sagging under the ongoing load of so much praying, and complaining, “Lord, I’m sick and tired of praying these prayers!”  And I was.  That kind of prayer is hard work.  And I was tired.  But those attitudes were sin—and we knew it. Being able to confess them melted those fleeting negative feelings, and we settled into the regular prayer routine again.

I am right smack in the middle of this same road.  I have been praying so long for several different things and it is wearing me out.  I was wondering, “How long Lord?”
Then I went to my Bible study this morning.  We are studying the book of Philippians. Our wonderful teacher Suzi, shared with us how Paul was talking about having joy in his life and he was in prison.  Oh my gosh, how can I ever complain about anything I might be going through.

And we know that in all things God works for the good to those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.  Romans 8:28
Whatever I am going through will work together for our good. What a precious promise,  I need to just trust God, believe and don’t give up praying.  In his timing, it will work out for our good.                                              

Dear God, 

Forgive me for complaining that I have been praying so long about something, without any answers.  I know the Bible verse that says, “All things work together for good?”  I forget about this when someone I love is hurting.   Please help me not give up, but to keep praying. Thank you God for what you are going to do.
Quote from the book What Happens When We Pray For Our Families. Evelyn, page 69

When your family members hurt—pray in faith.  It works!

 

 

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